To my great pleasure and interest, people are running with the theodicy meme.
These are the answers I've found so far:
Velveteen Rabbi (lovely title for a blog)
James McGrath (and I should say that clicking through to his site made me see a tremendously significant SPOILER for the next episode of Lost which has made me a trifle upset; I normally postpone reading James until after I've seen the relevant episodes!)
Several responses at Sarx
I'll try and keep tabs on them all and put the links up here.
For my earlier post on the problem of suffering go here.
The meme is being spread around the community of believers (from which I gain reassurance that my perspective is not at all unusual) but criticisms from an atheist angle can be found at Stephen Law's place. He's written quite a lot about it (see here).